Relationship? What can I say? It's like a ship on the sea. No matter how big, how powerful, how expensive and how exclusive the ship, it still can't bear the wave from the ocean. It still wobbles no matter how strong the ships are. If the ship takes a wrong direction, it might sink in the ocean like what we saw in one of the most successful movie, a romance genre movie, TITANIC.
"You jump, I jump".
"I'm the KING of the world."
Familiar with the dialog isn't? HEHE. That was two of the dialogs in the Titanic between Rose and Jack. :)
How romantic they were.
But, Jack had made a promise with Rose that he will not leave Rose alone and will forever stay with her. But all of that quotes are lies. Lies of love.
Everything that happens when we are in love is different. The entire thing that we do together is like the most unforgettable memories ever. :D
But, what does actually the meaning of love? The meaning of being in a relationship?
Is a relationship is only for romances and sweet thing. And until one time, we get into fighting and blame each other then just simply to break off the relationship that has been built for about a time.
Ego, hot tempered, selfish, stubborn, and jealousy is part of our characteristic. But, do we aware that, this behaviour sometimes can turn down our relationship.
We need understanding from each other. But because of the EGO and the hot tempered this entire thing were disappeared. Where is the happiness before? Where is the joy, the laugh and the jokes?
Because of ego, they blaming each other. Because of no compromise, we tend to get into argument.
What I need is just understanding. If the relationship is just like an order from one person and the couple just follows the rules and orders, what kind of relationship is this? Military training is it?
For me, it just simple. Come over and face to face. Sit and talk! No offence. There's no need to get into fight until we make ourselves suffered because of our own ego.
Throw away the ego and turn it to understanding. Start to learn and love our couple. Don't just say that "I LOVE YOU". It's common thing. Everybody can say it. Show your love to your love one.
PATIENT! Tolerant to each other. That is the most important thing.
Without this, we might get a problem, fighting with each other and have many misunderstanding.
This is just expression of my feelings. No offence.
To my sayang. If you read this, I just want to say, I hope you will understand me, and try to get along with my attitude. I LOVE YOU and never ever cross in my mind to hurt you even you dare to hurt me. No offence sayang.
p/s: I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
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